When you think of “friends” you probably think of guys who hang out together, play basketball, and have fun.
But sometimes, you’ll also meet a guy you really like.
He’s kind of like the opposite of a friend.
He can be mean, pushy, and often takes things personally.
It’s really important to know how to be respectful and respectful of each other.
So, what are some of the best ways to be an awesome friend?
It’s important to recognize when it’s time to get back to your friends.
When to go with your gut When you meet a new friend, it’s important that you understand what they want out of life.
They want to be loved, and they want to have a good time.
The best way to get there is to listen and understand their feelings.
That’s when it gets fun.
What’s not fun?
You might be the type of person who gets defensive when people say mean things about you.
When it comes to being friends, people don’t get along all that well.
It can be frustrating when you don’t understand why someone is saying things.
That can make things awkward.
But, if you can understand them, it can be helpful to just go with it and try to understand what each other is feeling.
This is especially helpful when you have different opinions on different subjects.
For example, if I’m being mean to you because I’m mad at you for something you did, I could say, “Yeah, that was rude.
I’m not mad at him, but I can understand why he feels that way.”
Or, I might be rude and disrespectful when I try to be nice to you.
Knowing when to get defensive It’s not always easy to figure out what’s the right time to go back to the drawing board and be a better friend.
It might be tempting to jump in with all the negativity, but that can be difficult.
The good news is that there are a few rules of being a good, supportive friend that you can follow to be more successful.
Let’s take a look at the rules of how to treat your new friends.
Don’t be rude Don’t let others judge you.
If you get too emotional and pushy in conversation, they’ll just assume you’re not listening.
Try to be considerate of each others emotions and wishes.
You’ll be amazed at how you can be genuinely nice to people.
Even when you disagree with them, don’t just throw things at them and tell them what you think.
Instead, try to listen.
That way, you can learn from what you have to say and improve your communication skills.
If they are rude, it doesn’t mean you have a bad relationship.
Just because you are rude doesn’t make you mean.
It just means you need to learn how to use your words more effectively.
Don’s the new guy You may think that if you’re a new person, you should learn some of these new rules first.
But if you have been around for a while, there are some rules that are helpful to you, too.
First, don`t get defensive.
This can be a time to be kind and understanding.
Just remember that you don`ts the power to make other people change their ways.
Thats how you get hurt and upset.
Second, don´t get into arguments.
You can be friends with someone who is upset about something, but it doesn`t mean you should start arguing with them.
The important thing is to try to learn from the other person, and then come back to them when you are able to do so.
Third, don�t be too judgmental.
When you get angry with someone, you’re acting on your emotions, not theirs.
And, you may even think that you are being a jerk for doing so.
But again, just remember that people have different levels of judgment.
So don`s just try to accept that and learn to let go of your anger.
Fourth, don’ t let someone tell you what to do.
If someone tells you what you should do, you need a plan B. And fifth, don”t judge people who disagree with you.
Even if you disagree, it won`t be fair to them.
Remember, you are a human being.
You are going to have to figure things out on your own.
Just know that you will get better with time.
That is the power of friendship.
You will grow.
Don`t worry if you don�ts always like someone.
The worst thing you can do is start acting like you don t know them.
When people say that, it makes you feel bad and makes you not want to work with them anymore.
Instead of doing it, you have just put yourself in a bad position.
Don´t feel bad if you still want to get to know them and have a great relationship.
It doesn’t have to be that